4 Tips on How to Make the Best Decisions

I am both embarrassed and proud that I finally made a decision to get the new

tile in our home.

Woohoo!

It’s taken me 10 years of thinking & talking about it!

As each year passed, I envisioned this is the year I will swap out this white tile

that shows every speck of dirt - to have a new lovely tile that would make me

smile.

Why did it take me 10 years to move forward?

• I enjoy my quiet living environment & didn’t want to give that up (even for a week of construction).

• It never felt like the right time (but is it ever?)

• There were more important things to take care of before this (like caregiving for my mom)

• I was uncertain as to whether it was the best project for my resources I was concerned I would choose the wrong tile.

When I look back, I see I was letting fear and uncertainty stand in the way because I never sat down to look at things head-on. But once I did, they lost their hold on me. By asking myself some important questions, I then felt confident to take action.

Now I will have the results to show with a fresh updated look to my home. I feel inspired & confident to have friends over soon.

All too often, caregivers put their wants & needs to the side. Making plans and decisions that don’t seem necessary (like getting new tile), get written down on the “Someday” list.

Can you think of a decision that if it is made, will propel you forward?

Delayed action often isn’t beneficial. It can prevent high-quality living. Think of the many times you tell yourself, “why didn’t I do this sooner?”.

In caregiving, there are so many tough decisions.

Fear and desire to avoid are normal.

4 Tips on How to Make the Best

Decisions

1. Challenge thoughts around a decision by asking:

• Do I need more information? If so, where can I get it?

• How might more time spent deliberating be more or less beneficial?

• Are there fears worth addressing?

2. Look at “what is in my control & what is not”. Think of what actions you can take to support you in both areas.

3. Go to a trusted friend/person for wise counsel.

4. To avoid getting stuck in analysis paralysis, set a time limit for how much time you spend thinking. Then step away & sleep on it. See how it feels for you the next day.

Give yourself COMPASSION & GRACE as you continue to do your best & become more equipped to handle what comes your way.

One day at a time.

If you need some help with decisions you have been putting off, try out these tips. Often sooner is better than later.